The Harsh Reality: Substance Use Is Always Driven by an Underlying Mental Health Issue
Substance use rarely exists in isolation. Behind nearly every case of addiction — whether alcohol, opioids, stimulants, or other drugs — lies an underlying mental health condition that the person has been trying to manage, numb, or escape. What looks like “just a substance use problem” on the surface is often self-medication for anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, or complex emotional pain that has gone unaddressed for years.
Interventions Are Not What You Think They Are: The Compassionate Truth Behind Modern Recovery Interventions
You’ve probably seen the dramatic TV versions: a room full of angry family members, harsh accusations, tears, and an ultimatum that forces someone into treatment. The person storms out, the family feels defeated, and the whole scene feels more like an ambush than help.
April is Autism Acceptance Month: Celebrating the Extraordinary Minds That Light Up Our World
April is Autism Acceptance Month — a time to move beyond mere awareness and truly honor the vibrant, brilliant, and resilient individuals on the autism spectrum who enrich our lives every single day.
I Just Received a Psychiatric Diagnosis — Now What? Your First Steps Toward Clarity, Support, and Real Healing
Receiving a psychiatric diagnosis can feel like the ground has shifted beneath you. One moment you’re trying to make sense of your symptoms, the next you’re holding a label that suddenly explains — and complicates — everything. Anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD, or any other diagnosis can bring a wave of relief mixed with fear, confusion, grief, and an urgent question: “What do I do now?”
World Bipolar Day: Raising Awareness, Reducing Stigma, and Honoring the Journey
Every year on March 30th, the world comes together to observe World Bipolar Day. This important global initiative aims to raise awareness, eliminate stigma, and promote better understanding of Bipolar Disorder. The date was intentionally chosen to honor the birthday of the legendary artist Vincent van Gogh, who is believed to have lived with Bipolar Disorder.
DBT Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder: What It Is, How It Works, and Why It Delivers Life-Changing Results
If you or someone you love has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), you’ve likely heard the term ‘DBT Therapy’ — but what exactly is it, and why do so many experts call it the gold-standard treatment for BPD?
Healing Beyond Labels: When Violence Becomes a Learned Pattern—and How Families Can Break the Cycle
Violence in a family is rarely a single moment. It is often a pattern, learned and reinforced across years, carried in the body as a kind of language, and defended with stories we tell about ourselves and one another. For someone who was repeatedly exposed to harm, the line between victim and perpetrator can blur.
The Love-Led Family: Ethics, Boundaries and Healing through Addiction
Those of us who have experienced any one of the different forms of addiction, we know it strains familial bonds and complicates even the simplest acts of care. This includes not only family of origin but family of choice and our professional relationships.
Codependency: Loving Them to Death — A Path to Recovery
When love becomes entangled with patterns of codependency, it can turn into a destructive force that harms both the giver and receiver.
How to Plan Well for Leaving Sober Living: A Guide to Successful Transitions and Relapse Prevention
Leaving sober living is a major milestone. It can feel both empowering and scary — a fresh start, yet with new responsibilities and challenges.
Why Sober Living Matters for Women and Gender Non-Conforming Individuals — And Why Access Must Improve
Early recovery is a vulnerable and defining time for anyone healing from substance use disorder—but for women and gender non-conforming (GNC) individuals, it’s often even more complex. The intersection of gender, trauma, and social stigma can make staying sober after treatment far more difficult. And yet, access to gender-responsive, affirming sober living environments is still alarmingly limited.
Nonviolent Communication: Methods to Deny Personal Responsibilities
According to Marshall Rosenberg’s book, “Nonviolent Communication,” we deny responsibility for our actions when we attribute their cause to factors outside ourselves.
Wednesday, January 3rd - Dr. Jennifer Manlowe "Clarity Through Enneagram Wisdom" on Zoom
Join Dr. Jennifer Manlowe, as part of Recovery Allies “Family Meeting” series on Zoom Wednesday, January 3rd at 7pm PT. Free and open to any who wish to join!
Unveiling the Complex Link: High-Potency Marijuana and Induced Psychotic or Manic States
The growing popularity of high-potency marijuana raises concerns beyond the euphoric experiences it offers. Recent studies have shed light on a concerning connection between high-potency cannabis and induced psychotic or manic states. In this blog post, we delve into the effects of high-potency marijuana and explore the intricate relationship it shares with mental health.
Thursday, September 7th - Ryan Salter "All the Tools in the Toolbox" on Zoom
Join Ryan Salter, LMHC, as part of Recovery Allies “Family Meeting” series on Zoom Thursday, September 7th at 7pm PT. Free and open to any who wish to join!
Thursday, July 6th - Edward Mosshart "Get off the Hook" on Zoom
Join Edward Mosshart, LMHC, as part of Recovery Allies “Family Meeting” series on Zoom Thursday, July 6th at 7pm PT. Free and open to any who wish to join!
Thursday, June 1st - Suzi Landolphi "PTG vs. PTSD" on Zoom
Join Suzi Landolphi, LMFT, as part of Recovery Allies “Family Meeting” series on Zoom Thursday, June 1st at 7pm PT. Free and open to any who wish to join!
Thursday, May 4th - Dr. Kristen Allott "Glucose and Cravings" on Zoom
Join Dr. Kristen Allott as part of Recovery Allies “Family Meeting” series on Zoom Thursday, May 4th at 7pm PT. Free and open to any who wish to join!
Watch: Enabling Part 2: How We Get Stuck
Am I able to say, "Hey, I think we need to get current in our relationship line." Can I say, "Hey, there's something really important I want to talk about. Is now a good time?" "Maybe I can't drive you to your appointments all of the time anymore, because I have to get back to my own life."